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A Short History of Divorce 13…Space

Posted by David Ward on 08/03/2012
Posted in: Relationships. Tagged: affairs, Afro-Caribean, Interpersonal relationship, listening, marriage, pregnancy, retreat, space, survival, surviving. Leave a comment

He needs to think. A friend lends him a car and he drives north to a Christian Community’s centre. He enjoys uncomplicated companionship.

One of the staff spends a lot of time listening, just allowing him to open up and get things off his chest.

The baby growing in his wife’s womb has an Afro-Caribbean father…there will be no hiding the circumstances, even if they wanted to. It’s not just a matter of what people will say and think…has he got what it takes to carry on and go this extra mile in the already unstable relationship?

There are no words of comfort. His listening host has experience of another situation similar to his own…

“They have survived, but it’s been incredibly painful and hard, and they’re not out of the woods yet.”

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A Short History of Divorce 12…Agony

Posted by David Ward on 06/03/2012
Posted in: Relationships. Tagged: Affair, affairs, lover, pregnancy, pregnant, shock. Leave a comment

Several weeks pass. He discovers that this time the lover is a member of the academic staff at the university.

One normal day he’s at his desk in his office at church when the phone rings.

It’s a mutual friend:

“I’ve got your wife with me. Would you come round, there’s something she needs to tell you.”

Normality forgotten and heart pounding he’s in the car and driving to…who knows what…

She seems sad.

“I’m really sorry…I know this is going to hurt you…I should have been more careful…I’m pregnant with my lover’s child…

He says…nothing.

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A Short History of Divorce 11…Repetition

Posted by David Ward on 05/03/2012
Posted in: Relationships. Tagged: affairs, deception, delusion, perverted religion, Religion and Spirituality. Leave a comment

The holidays are over, and she’s back at University.

One night she comes home late, and he smells someone else’s sweat on her body.

He challenges her.

It’s OK she says, this is all part of God’s plan for this man…she is introducing him to faith…

The husband is ‘gobsmacked’ by this perversion of faith.

A new affair…the horror has returned.

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